When Alaric and I were still in High School together, one of his close friends was in a rather bad relationship. The couple faught on a constant basis and almost always seemed at odds. Alaric would take on their drama/problems as though they were his concerns or personal issues as well. I just flat out told him, "People have enough drama to deal with on their own without taking on someone elses, that's why I don't get myself involved and neither should you."

You spare yourself a great deal of grief by just deciding you aren't going to be the middle man of anything or pretend/imagine that you support the world upon your shoulders.

*sighs.* iii-_- it's such a hard thing to sop oneself from doing, what with the guilt factor and the depression... but you are right. i gotta stop it.

Sounds like you need to find a reason to kick that depression in the nads. I used to have that myself and then I decided I didn't want it anymore so I sat down and meditated. Your "Will" is a powerful weapon sounds like you could use some time practicing using it.

yeh, heheh... ^_^ i am sure i'll be ok once i can destress.

I'm sure you will.

the Seatbelts are an awesome band. >w<

...I wouldn't know... O.o

realy? you should look them up. they play an EXTREMELY wide variety of sounds, but they seem to have a general style regardless of their traveling genre.... from funk to jazz to swing to folk to blues to soft rock.